Wow – I’ve really dropped off the face of the earth, haven’t I? So I guess the best way to explain my absence is with this picture:
I’m not saying this excuses me – but, well, it kind of does. First the exhaustion set in, then the nausea. I’m starting to feel better and I haven’t thrown up in 4 days which is my new record. So I’m cautiously optimistic that I’m over that part.
In October I attended a writers conference here in RVA. It was great. I have to say though, not every panel came through as well as I had hoped, but that happens because it’s a panel of authors and sometimes they get sidetracked or they don’t completely understand their topic so they just modify it. There was one panel where one panelist kind of took over and she didn’t stay on topic, she said (and even stated that’s what she was doing) whatever came into her mind. I didn’t like that panel at all. But other than that it was good as usual. I was able to meet with an experienced author to go over the first page of my story. I was semi-nervous as I was sharing my writing with a complete stranger, but when a woman in my writing group found out I had signed up for that she called me brave (she knows the guy I was going to meet with). That’s when I became really nervous. I tried to calm down and when I met with him I was ready for the worst. But he was actually really nice, had great advice, and complimented my writing. I told that to the other woman in my writing group and she told me that I should feel very good about that because this man was known for his bluntness and if he didn’t like my writing he wouldn’t have hesitated to tell me so – or to even tell me that maybe I shouldn’t even be writing. So I felt pretty good the rest of the conference.
That being said – I haven’t written anything since. Book, blog or otherwise. So I’m trying to get back in to it. I want to write at least 100 words a day in my story – 1) because that was recommended at the writers conference to help develop the habit and keep moving forward and 2) 100 words seems doable and not overwhelming.
Also, my friend, Ashley has asked me to do a guest post at her blog about life as a single, LDS woman. Granted I’m not single anymore, I have spent more of my adult life single. I have no idea what to say or how it will turn out, but I figure if I started to write (blog and book) then I’d be better able to start writing something about those days as a single lass.
In the rest of my world – Stormy is doing well. He is so fast and crazy and I swear he undoes everything I do – BUT he is learning to help out too. I’ve got him throwing away his own diapers and cleaning up most of his own messes. It’s so fun to watch him learn and grow and develop. He’s more affectionate now and I like to tell myself it’s because I’m his best friend. When you think about it – I’m almost everywhere he goes, I play with him the most, and I give him all the good food when no one’s watching. We gave him his first haircut – in two parts because apparently it’s pretty traumatic. So for about twelve hours he was half done, but – with the exception of a wisp here and there, I think he looks pretty good now.
I’m not really sure what else to update on so I’ll leave you with some more recent pictures and hopefully I’ll be writing again before too long. Also – I’ll post a link when I finally get that guest blog over to Ashley.