Lildonbro here, reporting live from Potty Training Central. We're two hours into potty training and have gotten the little one to sit on the potty 3-4 times. He's currently walking around without any pants on and has peed on the floor once, which left him looking both surprised and pleased with himself. The offender has received one ball from the Potty Prizes box and has been informed several times that to get more prizes he'll have to use the potty and actually leave behind pee or poop. He is put on the potty every 15 minutes thanks to a timer.
I almost gave up as soon as I started. I've read and my sisters reminded me that the first day is the hardest. Day one is meeting that expectation so far. He fought me on sitting on the potty, he kept asking for a diaper. If it weren't for motivating texts from my sister he would be in a diaper right now.
My advice from my two hours of experience – have someone who's experienced this so they can help keep you motivated when you want to quit; explain (again) with visuals of the treats (or chart) that to earn those treats, they have to use the potty; if you've got a fighter, give him his first treat for being willing to sit on the potty (and then be prepared to hold your ground that he has to leave some kind of bio material to receive anymore).
We are doing the diaperless, training pantless, big boy underwearless approach. i.e. Little Man is naked from the waist down.
Stayed tuned for more updates about the Boy being put on kitty Prozac…just kidding…
Tomorrow I will start potty training Stormy. Am I nervous? Heck yeah. I’ve never potty trained a toddler before. I let Stormy go without a diaper once for not more than five minutes and found some poop on his bedroom floor. But we’ve been reading potty books and working on the lingo. He’s excited about his own potty (and has been for a long time). And he tries to take his pants off
He doesn’t care where we are. He tells me when he has pooped, so maybe soon he’ll tell me when he has to poop.
Given that I know plenty of kids older than him who are not potty trained, I’m worried I’m doing this too soon. So this may be the worst idea I’ve ever had (which will top the other two worst ideas I ever had that I happen to have had this week). But – it could also work and I won’t have to change as many diapers, or fight a thirty pound toddler while trying to change a diaper. Worst case – I’ll get new carpets.
I’m tall. It’s taken me many, many years to get comfortable with being tall. Short women seem to have it easy; they can find pants that are long enough, they can find cute shoes in their size, most men seem tall to them, etc. etc.
But there are times when being tall has it’s advantages and I’m not going to lie, most of them happen in the grocery store. From the time I was a teen, I’ve learned to recognize that relieved look a shorter person would have when I started down an aisle. As soon as I was close enough they’d ask me to get an item from the top shelf for them. Or one close to the top but near the back of the shelf.
It’s been a while though, since I’ve used my height and arms for the good of myself or another in the grocery store. So it was nice today, when I went shopping and came upon the milk. All the milks I could see had an expiration date that wouldn’t get them through to the next time I needed to go to the store. I almost decided to go without milk but then I noticed a rack of milk further back in the refrigerator. If I stepped in just slightly, I would be able to reach a milk on the top shelf of that second rack. So I did it! I got a milk with an expiration date that will get me through almost two weeks! I put the milk in my cart, feeling pretty good about my amazonian arms when I noticed an older gentlemen looking at me, it was clear he had just witnessed what I had done. He asked if the date was better on those and I confirmed they were. Then he asked if I would get him one too. No problem! I got him one and then we talked briefly about why this matters (neither of us use a lot of milk so it’s nice to have it last as long as possible). I could tell he was awed by my ability and maybe by my refusal to accept the expiration date offered me.
This is my life now – changing diapers, medicating a cat, chasing a toddler, and fighting against the grocery man and his expiration dates…it’s a pretty good life.
Since Gertie was born, the cat's been peeing on the couch. As you can imagine, I'm not too happy. I cleaned the couch and have had to keep plastic covering on it, which is annoying. I tried several things, everything really, to keep him from peeing. Finally, a friend suggested taking him to the vet. Just to ensure it wasn't a bladder infection (of course I think he'd be peeing EVERYWHERE if that was the case) and to possibly put him on Prozac. I didn't want to do it for a few reasons – one was expense (because I'm a terrible person) and also I wasn't sure we couldn't stop the behavior with everything else. But one failure after the next and I was on the phone making an appointment. I took him at the end of last week. Grandma watched the kids while we were there. The car ride home was intense. A cat who hates traveling in the cat carrier, a tired baby, and a toddler who hates when his sister cries. I took a video to prove it. I was losing my mind but it was also funny. Diagnosis: kitty to be put on Prozac for 1.5 months to try to correct the problem. Will update soon.
(Sorry it's sideways) By the end of the trip I needed Prozac…
On Sundays, Stormy goes to Nursery at church. He's gotten to the point where he is okay being there…once they pull out the snacks. But it's no secret that some days he just doesn't want to be there.
This past Sunday, he was clingy at first so I stayed in there and did a puzzle with him, but when they brought out snacks I was able to leave and my presence was not missed. An hour later, one of the nursery leaders brought him to Chewy and I and informed us that Stormy had said he had a poopy diaper (i.e. He said "poop" and tried to remove his clothes – since we are preparing for potty training it's good he is learning these things – I just prefer he didn't do it on public). However, he didn't have a poop, he figured out that when a kid has a stinky diaper they take that kid to their parents. So he used it to get out. Smart kid.
I never thought anything would top Poocalypse but I was wrong.
About two weeks ago I was giving Stormy a bath. He was pretty docile which isn’t like him. Then I heard Chewy from the kitchen, “oh gosh!” Which usually means a child has made some sort of mess, mostly produced from their body. I asked what was wrong and he said Gertie had spit up on him. A few minutes later he came into the bathroom saying he was wrong, the wetness he had felt on his arm wasn’t spit up-rather it was a diaper blowout. Which I had kind of guessed from the large brown stain on the back of her pajamas. I took Gertie, Chewy got Stormy and I plunked Gertie in the bathtub. I washed her down then got her out of the tub and wrapped into a towel. As I was coming out of the bathroom, Stormy ran up to me crying…he had vomit on his hand. Before I could react he started projectile vomiting not once but twice. I wrapped up Gertie tighter in the towel, put her in a bouncy seat and took Stormy back into the bathroom for a second bath while Chewy cleaned up the mess in the living room. While all that was happening, Gertie started crying. I picked her up just to have her hang out with Stormy and I when I realized that the towel was wetter than it should be. I opened it up to find that she had pooped. I cleaned her up, put on a diaper and pjs, put her in her bouncy seat and went back to Stormy. Got him out of the tub and in new pjs, brushed his teeth and gave him water to drink. By this time it was thirty minutes past his bedtime. We had family prayer and put him down. I came into our bedroom where Chewy had Gertie and she filled another diaper.
Gave Stormy a bath
Gertie had a blow out
Gave Gertie a bath
Stormy vomited all over himself and the living room
Gave Stormy a second bath
Gertie pooped in a towel
Put Stormy to bed
Gertie filled another diaper
Change that diaper
Mom and dad pass out in bed…
So I’m adjusting to life with two kiddos. Today I thought we’d venture out with daddy to the grocery store. I got Stormy ready and then went to get myself ready. I grabbed a dress and pair of leggings from on top of a basket of clean laundry. I put the leggings on, which felt cold and then prepared to put on the dress. That’s when I got a whiff of it…cat urine. I feel like there’s a distinct “cat urine” smell, it’s kind of like chewing gum with pineapple flavoring…not the taste, I’ve never tasted it because I don’t like gum and because it smells like cat urine to me. Anywho, I threw the dress into the dirty laundry and then realized the awful truth about the leggings, they weren’t cold, they were wet. As I had just added both items to the top of clean laundry (yeah, yeah, I’m behind on putting it away) I know the urination happened during the night. A night where the baby kept me up for hours and the cat consistently tried to smother me in my sleep.
I peeled off the leggings and washed my legs. Then I had to find something else comfortable enough to wear. I finally got dressed and then grabbed Gertie to put her in her car seat. Right before I put her in the seat she spit up, lots of it, all over both of us. So back to the bedroom we went. I changed her and then changed myself (after finding something else I’d feel comfortable in – the postpartum belly is worse than anything). Oh yeah, during all of this I’m trying to keep the cat in the office because he is officially banned from the rest of the house but Chewy was in there for something and so he kept escaping. It was a mad house here. But we made it – for the grocery shopping done and the laundry but my goodness, I guess this is just a taste of what’s to come.